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Or a impediment? 
There days u can find sex everywhere, over the net, in adverts, cinemas & in secluded dark spots .
So is chasity a dying virtue in the 21 century?
Lets be honest here. Wud guys/gals prefer a virtuous partner or does that not matter any more and is considered old fashioned thinking? 
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i would prefer a virtuous partner but that doesnt mean i would mind one who lost her chasity.
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Originally posted by [Hope]:
i would prefer a virtuous partner but that doesnt mean i would mind one who lost her chasity.
I think it is possible for a non-virgin to be chaste as well...depends on circumstances?
Btw i juz noticed its chastity 
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I think it is possible for a non-virgin to be chaste as well...depends on circumstances?
further elaboration? i mean wat sort of circumstances?
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I'll give you my opinion just as soon as you come up with a definition of chastity that is not personally insulting. 
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Or a impediment?
please tell me how chasity can ever be considered an impediment?!  
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please tell me how chasity can ever be considered an impediment?!
Well, an intact hymen can be a slight impediment to penetration...
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Well, an intact hymen can be a slight impediment to penetration...
of cos. 
besides that? 
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of cos.
besides that?
It can be a psychological impediment. If you think about it, I'm sure you can see why.
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It can be a psychological impediment. If you think about it, I'm sure you can see why.
haha...indeed 
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Originally posted by [Hope]:
further elaboration? i mean wat sort of circumstances?
Chastity is abstainance of sex but she could have had sex whilst drugged or not in control of her mental faculties. The root of the word comes from pure i think.
BTW i thot this is serious thots? Or izzit merely serious chit chat?
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Chastity is abstainance of sex but she could have had sex whilst drugged or not in control of her mental faculties. The root of the word comes from pure i think.
BTW i thot this is serious thots? Or izzit merely serious chit chat?
doesnt that classify as being raped?
If going by the dictionary meaning, then chastity would mean the state of not having sex other than the one whom u are married to.
After some thinking, if u have to truly go by the word chastity, then so long she has sex before then shes probably no longer considered as chaste. Will add on later if assuming i can give a better reply than this.
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well, it depends on who she loses it to, doesn't it?
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Hope> Chastity is a choice or mode of behaivour so if ur an unwilling party or did not consciously participate i think it would be safe to say the person is still chaste but seriously we all know wat chaste means rite?  I think a virgin who goes ard freely giving oral satisfaction surely cannot be considered chaste?
The real question is wherther this is a valued virtue or not these days? No takers? All siam?
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Hope> Chastity is a choice or mode of behaivour so if ur an unwilling party or did not consciously participate i think it would be safe to say the person is still chaste but seriously we all know wat chaste means rite? I think a virgin who goes ard freely giving oral satisfaction surely cannot be considered chaste?
The real question is wherther this is a valued virtue or not these days? No takers? All siam?
Any form of sex would make that person no longer chaste i think.
Yes im a virgin and has every intention to remain one till im married IF i get married that is.
But these days, not many really care much about this virtue anymore. Sad though.
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Yes im a virgin and has every intention to remain one till im married IF i get married that is.
But these days, not many really care much about this virtue anymore. Sad though.
Good for you. But would you therefore view those who have premarital sex as being less virtuous?
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But these days, not many really care much about this virtue anymore. Sad though.
well sad is awfully subjective. I hold the opposite view, I think it's sad people still care about this stuff. the point is that you should do whatever makes you comfortable, but don't judge other people for what they do if they are not harming you.
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I'll toast to that..(though I do not drink) 
Chasity or no chasity...whu cares I mean, as long as you two are happy with one another..that's what that matters...
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well sad is awfully subjective. I hold the opposite view, I think it's sad people still care about this stuff. the point is that you should do whatever makes you comfortable, but don't judge other people for what they do if they are not harming you.
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Originally posted by Pieter:
well sad is awfully subjective. I hold the opposite view, I think it's sad people still care about this stuff. the point is that you should do whatever makes you comfortable, but don't judge other people for what they do if they are not harming you.
I think everyone is entitled to his/her own value system?
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Good for you. But would you therefore view those who have premarital sex as being less virtuous?
Hmm..i am not too concerned about this chastity issue. Like i said, i PREFER one who values chastity, but im not going to hype on this issue so much for my future wife/girlfriend. As for those who have premarital sex, if we take a firm stand, one must wait all the way until actual marriage before having sex or such. After all, if we were to say premartial sex doesnt count, then probably everyone will start giving all sorts of weird reasons. And when i say "But these days, not many really care much about this virtue anymore. Sad though" in my earlier reply i was more on referring to those who seem to don't think much on going around screwing. But oh well who am i to judge them.
Protector and Pieter has similar stands as me. We have no rights to judge what others do. Its other people's life, they can do whatever they want with it. *shrugs*
Is there a need to insist on ur partner being chaste? I don't think so. We don't love our other half for their body.
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